Ghostwriter
I was not prepared. I was not prepared for the scream of the ambulance. I was not prepared to make the phone calls. I believed that I had done everything in my power to be strong and I am not strong. I can think of hundreds of things I could of said, and thousands of times I could have chosen to laugh instead of cry when he teased me. I thought I was going to somehow make it all come together.
When he daughter died and I came home in tears and scared with no words, he said sometime bad things happen and this is really bad. Abut an hour later when people started bringing food, he turned to me and said “I think they should bring kleenex, maybe the kind with lotion.
I am gong to buy some kleenex. I think I will get the kind with lotion.
I’m so sorry! And you know, we are never prepared. You will be in my players.?
I am sorry for your loss… indeed, nothing can prepare us for the loss of our loved ones…
I guess you are right. Thank you for your love and kindess.
No one is prepared but we have to face it all. Sorry you are facing the unprepared.
I wonder what ever made me think I could prepare. Thank you for your kindness.
I feel sorry for the loss your experiencing.
Thank you, it helps knowing that people are kind and care.
I am sorry for your loss, no you are right nothing prepares you for it. I am here for you if there is anything I can do.
You just did it. You know my heart hurts and showed me compassion. Thank you.
I’m sorry about what happened.
I know you can get through it. Take your time.
We’re all here for you.
Time seems to be an enemy sometimes. It guess that it what it takes to understand. Thank you so much.
I am so sorry, you are right we are never prepared. My prayers and my thoughts are with you.
You know my thoughts are with you. Message any time if you need to talk. We are all here for you and would like to help. Listening is valuable and I am always available to you. I can also share an email address through messaging here if you prefer.
Hugs to you my friend at this very difficult time.
Thank you so much. I am so trying to “feel” like everything is normal when nothing really is.
You will have a new normal through this process. Just go with the feelings.
I am so, so sorry. If you ever need to talk, I am here for you.
Thank you so much. Right now I am just in the crying and screaming stage (I hope that is a normal stage)
Yes, it’s normal. Cry and scream all you want.
oh I am so sorry. Is there anything we can do?
Yes, you’ve done it. You showed me compassion.
I have support, concern and caring for you right here as well.
A virtual hug sent your way to boot!