Fortune
To love is to want that another person would feel great. Don’t think about yourself and be able to release him even if you don’t want to. Do not oppress him either by your life or your love. Let the one you love also has wings.
I am grateful that my mother taught me to love without oppressing others. Her theory was simple: a man will want to tie with you only when he feels free. Whether it is a parent-child relationship or a loved one. Love and be loved.
© Fortune, 2009
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Is unconditional love really possible between a man and a woman?
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Yes
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No
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That is the kind of relationship that my late husband and I had and we were also soul mates. When he suddenly passed away leaving me totally alone two years ago I felt like I had lost half of me and it was such a feeling that almost put me into a panic. It was a very hard time and even to this day with the second anniversary of his passing coming up in August I feel as if it just happened.
Should you hold grudges in a relationship? Not if you want a healthy relationship. But that doesn’t mean unconditional love is a recipe for a healthy relationship, either
What if your spouse does something that upsets you all the time?
It is only possible before marriage.
You were taught well my friend. Unconditional love is possible with the right person I believe.
We can love our children without conditions but I’m afraid that an unconditional love for our partner may set us up for disappointment. Anyway my answer was “Yes”. ?
When you learn the skill of instant forgiveness may things become possible.