Ghostwriter
I have moved onto the whatever stage. I did my best to try and build enthusiasm and commented until my fingers couldn’t move. I went way past what could been any benefit to me personally to try and help those who cannot post. There was no “thanks for trying” and a whole lot of “you don’t understand”.
I did understand, that is why I was doing everything I could every spare minute. But why? What I once felt like a community that would hang together and do whatever it takes to get it done, has splintered into “poor picked on us”. So here is the new me and quite frankly I don’t like her very much.” She’s lost a part of her spirit, her fight, her hope and her creativity.”
Yes I will write posts. Now I will comment on those who comment on mine. Sad that I have turned into one of “those”. I hope I don’t feel that way long. After commenting until my hands couldn’t move so they could respond and earn virils and most didn’t even bother to respond and earn what they could.
I was determined that I was going to do it on every single one of their posts no matter what. But why if it benefits no one.
So for now I am quid pro quo and saddened that I have come to that. Whatever – take a break and give them time to fix the problem.
I have not been able to comment due to computer issues. Yesterday someone came trying to fix the issue. I do admire you as many others do. Don’t let some bad apples spoil it for the rest.
I am sorry. It must be frustrating. I am glad you were able to give me some inspiration just when I needed it.
Sometimes I just do what I think I should or want to do, but try to ignore others’ negative attitude or comment. Just do what you feel like doing at the moment. 🙂
I end up breaking my own rule. Everyone should know they are heard. So we all know after a while I will go back and comment.
Once upon a time in a land far away, we were a community of people trying to move forward. Now as you said we are splintered.
I don’t blame you for the if you don’t comment I won’t comment, I have heard that one for a long time and I am getting there as well.
It makes me sad, the issues and problems continue to mount.
You are one of the influencers on the site, you change and rive good behavior. You are an inspiration and a gift.
Thank you for everything you’ve done!
Yeah, well you know how I am. Then I realize that I am not in their situation and here I am judging them. So that may have lasted 24 hours. I have to say that it felt good to let some steam out, but now I am back and commenting until my fingers won’t allow it any more. I am marching forward two steps and only one step back.
put one foot in front of the other and soon you’ll be marching out the door!
We all need to blow off steam! Otherwise the kettle bursts from pressure!~
What you need now is a hero to save you. You have gone beyond your duty and it is very well appreciated.
No need for a hero – it is what it is and all I can do is what I can do. I do tire of the negative, that was part of the reason I used to come to try and forget about hospice, dying family members and many things I have no control over.
There, there, no fretting, Ghostwriter! you tried and it didn’t work out tried out a few incentives back a spell and failed. Anyhow, you’ve picked up a few Virils for your efforts.
Yes, but I get so tired of failing.
Nothing a little 4-7-8 can’t fix
I thanked you for your effort.
Oh dear. I may have missed some. I was so exhausted. My sincere apologies.
I complimented you. I appreciate what you are doing.
People are different and not every person has the same expectations or enthusiasm. You do what you can. And, don’t burn yourself to death or feel sorry for yourself. What you can, do. What you can’t, don’t force yourself.
My expectation is that I should be doing all I can.
You can’t do much since you have other tasks outside of Virily that you have to cater for. Do what you can without tiring yourself to death emotionally and physically.
It would be much easier if there were less negativity and more were doing the same. It is what it is.
Musical thought
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFNK-9A2VRo
I agree with your reply. I will check the link you’ve provided.
All we can do is all we can do. 🙂
I fear I am not up for the job that you all deserve from me.
Fear is part of life, you got this. If it becomes too much, let off the gas pedal and coast awhile.