Elena Bojchovska
Just like the happiness, being miserable is a choice! Almost everyone who is miserable decides to follow this path just because he is hungry for attention. There is a brief but quite fair reason why this is true.
Usually the people who seek for attention have a lack of confidence and they always need proof from the majority that surrounds them that they are worth it. They do not see the beauty in themselves therefore put focus on the weak spots of their character and this is what expands. Just like the rest of the world they are free to chose for themselves once the damage is done. The options are two:
Keep on with the negativity and expect nothing which final result won’t be any better,
or
Follow the bright side and hope for the best by appreciating all they’ve learned, all they’ve went through and all they’ve lost!
One can either be sad and scream out loud all the opportunities he’s missed or be confident and never lower his standards just because something went out of the path.
In the lifetime one faces numberless obstacles which help them create and strengthen his character, decide what’s best for him, learn from the lesions he experiences on his own skin and show his real value. That’s why different people have different characters, make different choices and follow different paths. Only small group of people realizes that sometimes not getting what one wants is a wonderful stroke of luck!
The sooner you wake up inside yourself, the sooner you face your responsibilities and hug your weaknesses, the better life you are most likely to have. To tell that nothing lasts forever, both good but especially bad, is to tell but half of the story about the life. In order to keep the balance inside you, whenever you feel that little kick that tries to knock you down just remember to stand strong like a tree in a wind because a bad day does not mean a bad life!
Look not for proofs from the others, compare yourself to no one, believe in no one but yourself and make sure you understand that you only live once which is enough info not to destroy the beautiful soul that lives inside your physical body!
You are whatever you choose to be! You are what the shape of your dreams is! Don’t sell it for sympathy nor little attention because everyone is too busy trying to save himself!
It doesn’t feel like a choice. It feel like a death sentence.
Shared with another beautiful friend and I hope he joins us, too. She’s really, really nice and could profit from this.
I’m glad you liked it, you agree so you’ve shared it! Let’s hope your friend will see what we mean and joins us 🙂
Being such a person is a bad role choice to play in a drama of life that is weak in energy and sucks the energy of others as well. Btw, you use an attractive illustration.
I saw the picture in some of my folders and I thought: ”I know you can turn into a beautiful article!” I had to use it! I like it, even though it looks miserable itself xD By the way, you are right! Such people always want to be the center of the attention and all they clearly show is the little self confidence they have!
Do you know about a book The Celestine Prophecy, a novel by James Redfield? If you read it, this trait you write is part of an interesting drama.
Never heard about it before but I’ll make sure to find it now that you recommend it! 🙂
Believe me, you will not regret it, and will even seek its continuation. Hehe…
Very great post, and I instantly thought of one of my classmates, who always has something negative going on her in her life that she complains about. She thinks that someone is always out to screw her around. Just recently I had a conversation with her, explaining to her that whatever happened happened, but dwelling on it won’t change that negative outcome that just happened.
You are right! I can not agree more! Actually, what you have to do is avoid such negative and toxic people! Get them out of your life and you’ll see the difference! They even influence the others around them or share the negativity they have inside!
Existence precedes essence, therefore we are who we chose to be. Powerful graphic, by the way…
We turn into whatever we have courage to ask for! Therefore, no excuses! I could have been whatever else, however I decided to be what I’m now, not because I was paying attention to the other people’s opinion, but because I followed my inner voice!
I applaud your decision to become your truest self
This is such a relevant topic that needs to be addressed more often than less. Thank you for sharing.
The more I read your writing the more I see a leader. You’re guide for more than 1 kind of tour. Elena!
Thanks a million for your beautiful words! You’re always so king! I’m glad you see the I want everyone to think twice about their happiness and life in general as all it’s in their hands and minds!
This is absolutely a perfect match or introduction to my next article, not only do I agree, I also recommended your post on my Twitter page as well as my G+ page.
I’ll have a look and try to do it now. Thanks for the advice and thanks for reading! I’m glad you share my opinion! I wish you a very good day & I’m waiting for your new article!
This has a very important message for all of us to ponder upon. Excellent!
Thank you a lot for reading! I’m glad you see what I mean with the message I wanna share! I wish you a very beautiful day!