1. Your words ought to be impeccable
Converse with integrity, reliability and persuasiveness. Say only what you think but always make sure it is what you really think and feel. Avoid saying words against yourself or to gossip. Use the power of the words in the direction of the love and the truth.
2. Do not take anything personally
No one does anything because of you. What the others think, do or say is a reflection of their own self and their own reality and dreams. Once you become immune on the other people’s thoughts and behavior you avoid unnecessary suffering. Everyone lives in his own world and dream.
3. Do not even try to guess
You have to always feel free to ask questions and show and speak what you love and think indeed. Communicate with the others as often as possible so you avoid misunderstandings, pain and suffering. Only by doing this you can change your whole life. On that way you can be fully present in the now.
4. Always try your best
Not more nor less, but always give and try your best! This might change from time to time and it might depend on the health conditions or your mind and thoughts in a particular moment and situation. No matter the conditions, just always give the best of you and you will avoid suffering and self-pity. You will reach the peace because you will be sure you tried your best and you did all you could.