Ileana Calotescu
I have been on this site for a long time. I met friendly people. Virily was like a welcoming house. Lots of things have changed a lot since that time. I feel it is increasingly difficult for me to find the joy I once had when I came on Virily. Could it be because in the meantime I added a few more years to my age? Could it be because I face new challenges every day? Could it be because the family atmosphere on the site has changed a lot? At first I felt the joy of sharing a beautiful sunset. Now I wonder if I should stop! These are questions I ask myself every time I come on Virily.
Neither comprehension nor learning can take place in an atmosphere of anxiety. Rose Kennedy
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Do you feel the atmosphere is less friendly here, or is it just my opinion?
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Yes
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No
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it’s just your opinion
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Things change when policies changes.
You can’t expect a change without any repercussions.
My impression is that we, the users, have determined the changes in these policies and that is what I do not like!
I love your sunsets, and your posts. I would miss you and them tremendously if you were not here. I hope you stay, maybe take a short break?
Thank you, Kim! I haven’t decided to leave yet. But I said that I no longer feel the same pleasure to be here.
I love the picture you put for the post. Maybe since you have been here a long time that you got tired of it. Maybe go do something else and come back if that is something you want to do.
I didn’t get tired of being here. I found that the atmosphere changed. This is what I feel. I’m not saying that everyone feels the same!
I love seeing your wonderful photos of sunsets and other photos as well. Being as always a writer struggling to make an existence for me finding a friendly site is a delight and the money I get is an added bonus. However, if the site should change then I just struggle along as best I can but continue writing and sharing because I need the income. That is another reason why I am constantly exploring sites for writing jobs because if I can land some really good ones and they take up my time and pay well then if any site no longer brings me joy I can consider other options. Right now, I think there is still hope for Virily but I do see that there is a great change in the reading and commenting of articles.
Need a new topic for posting about Virility? Just asking!?
Thank you, Sandra! I love reading your articles. They are very informative and I read them with pleasure.
The less people there are, the more noticeable our differences become.
I enjoy your photography, the beautiful pictures and inspiring posts are one of my main reasons to spend my time here.
I try to get over the unpleasant things and move on.
I agree that admins should inform the changes from time to time, but the atmosphere is made by users! If we didn’t complain all the time, the admins wouldn’t make so many changes!
It’s what I believe! You have the right to your own opinion. One does not exclude the other.
I’m not sure I understand who are those people complaining about other people spoiling “their fun”.
i find myself asking the questions you are. It is difficult at best sometimes.
When I’m not happy with what I do, it’s getting harder and harder for me!
I have decided that I will enjoy my time and do what I like to do. I do love your pictures!
Things have changed. I hesitate to share many photos due to many reasons. But I find a reason to keep going and hope for a better future.
When a community is made up of different types of people it is difficult to maintain harmony