Ghostwriter
rying to decide if I should laugh or cry. I am sending my husband with Alzheimer to take care of the grandchildren at their house because they are addicted to their video games. I am going to drop them off and wish them luck. It is not what I consider the best choice and I am not the parent, so it is not my choice to make. I will be many miles away, so whatever they work out between themselves will be interesting.
My focus will be taking care of things here and hoping things there work themselves out. I am hopeful they will work together and have some success.
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Have you ever decidecd you have to allow a disaster to happen?
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Have you ever been releaved that you don’t have to witness something?
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Good luck with your situation. Hopefully it will all work out.
There are often situations that have a number of possible solutions, but where none of the solutions is a particularly good one.
This looks like a picture of a pelican that has been polluted by oil. If that is true, I see no reason to laugh.
The picture was about a pelican that over came something with much joy and laughter. I used it because of the story the author told and said they even in adversity the bird was joyful for the help.
But did it survive from being covered in oil?
I would say , some time a father is very kind to be very cruel.
I would afraid to leave a man with Alzheimer to care about my grandchildren. My day would be filled with too much worry for all of them. I could not find peace in my mind and heart.
It has been a learning experience for us all. The grandchildren have emergency call buttons. The neighbors are all aware and understand what is happening. The boys are old enough to understand. It wouldn’t work for everyone, and still since their mother is in rehab trying to get her arms and hands to work again – there are some extreme measures we are taking.
I don’t worry much about what is happening a home with them. They have a great system and way of handling each other and they can have professional help in 7 minutes. Of course they tested that several times – that was a learning curve.
Many might not understand, but it is fine for where they are all in the stages they are in at this point.