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I can hear my father say, just as if he were sitting right here next to me “The good Lord helps those who helps themselves. Well, not really he sends others here on earth to help them. You should always listen with your heart and know when it is time to help.” 

He would quickly follow with this “Remember you also need to care for your own. They are depending on you.”

Today I have to get back in a little balance before I head back to the hospital for my next shift. I made over 150 comments on those who are having issues with creating. I did my best to spread them around. I created two posts, this being my 3rd.  I tweeted the work of 50 posts, none of them being my own. 

Soon it will be a new Virily Day and this won’t matter because we have moved on and all those opportunities of yesterday are done. 

I can take paper and pen to the hospital with me, but Bro asked that I not bring my electronics. I will honor his wish. He is fine with paper and pen because it’s not a distraction for him. Him healing is my number one priority. 

Please forgive me and I am going to think out loud for a moment. If those who cannot create, if they want to help themselves they should go back over their posts and comment back to anyone who left a comment and wasn’t responded to or thanked in some way. That is simple logic.

For those who want to help them, they should and go comment on any of their posts they may have not commented on before. If they have a question or something new to add, all the better. It is not a hand out, it’s a hand up. Of course you won’t get virils for all you do and for some of us that is all good. It all comes out in the wash.

It’s time to decide if we are a true community working together or all in for yourself. No shame for either options. Everyone is in a different situation.

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    Are you having a great day?

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    • No
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    Do you know how to help yourself?

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    Like a parent, you can’t help until you are taken care of, do you agree?

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  2. Well, some people tell me things like they tell you, you have to take care of yourself. Any sensible person would be often doesn’t work out to plan
    I broke my wrist and was told a list of what I could not do, laughed in her face, Off course I had to do the lot, there is no one there for me to do it for me, and that’s that
    She offered home help, a week after wards the home help was all set up and the hospital that set it up said no,,,the ACC board pulled the plug, wrong home help agency
    So I said home help was too much trouble

    I do get home help now for my husband to relieve me of some of the things that need to be done.

  5. It is sad really that we now work here to help each other increase their earnings but not what we enjoy doing. At any site there are choices as to which posts are interesting to read and learn from and in the process both the one who has posted and one responds earns from that activity. The fact that many posts were not hitherto responded to but they will now shows they are only doing as an obligation. Indeed very sad. . .

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    • Okay I was enjoying helping others. It doesn’t sound like it’s appreciated, so I guess my attempt to help out was not a good decision. I will stop. I respect your opinion and hope you have a great day.

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      • My thinking is that users should choose to come to posts because they like to read those posts. . I only hope you will come to my posts because you like to read them.

        Have a nice day.

      • There were many who just view my posts on a regular basis. I am not aware who does that but I know they do it because they also earn but do not read my posts. And there are several others who not only read my posts but also comment on a regular basis. I do the same – view, read and comment

  6. I can’t see any post from other members except you and some other verified member. Only verified members can post and posting here.

    It’s not that I can’t post. I have posted but those are not approved for last one week. I thing many others having same issue. Fingers crossed and wating and hoping things Will back to normal soon.

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