That the look never lies.
Have you ever been talking to someone who never looks at you in the eye? Instead of looking into your eyes, he looks out the window or the tops of his shoes.
Our eyes almost always show our true feelings and our attitude to things. Glances never lie. Looking at a person in the eyes during a conversation talks about honesty, respect and sincerity. Although we all know this unwritten rule, some people find it particularly difficult to respect it.
Curious facts about the eyes you may not know
Most often, the reasons are related to some hidden problem, we are shy, we do not show emotions, we experience insecurity or we suffer from low self-esteem. In that case, first we have to deal with our inconveniences. Only then will we appreciate the advantage of visual contact and how much we can understand for our interlocutor, just by the way he looks at us.
The eyes speak more than we think
People who see their interlocutors in the eyes are perceived as stronger, with leadership positions, more natural and casual, more honest and sincere, more confident and even more skilled and knowledgeable. This also enhances the quality of your communication because it enhances the sense of communication and proximity.
It was a portrait of Gencho with whom I have been living together for 14 years. For a challenge on another site I had to cut the photo. Now I use it here.
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Do you agree? That the look never lies.
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Eye contact is recommended in most cultures, modern communication or interaction, as also discussed in psychology, but there are cultures or customs that avoid it, at least there are ways and manners that govern it. I myself have no problem with that.
Agree 100% that the look never lies, and you need just to make eye contact with somebody to know how he/she really treats you.
The eyes tell a lot about people.
Contact with eyes is very important because we can read a lot from the eyes
Yes indeed, making eye contact is crucial wen conversing with someone. Even some animals will not look you in the eye when they have done something bad.
I can’t make that contact, I can just try :/
You do know that in some cultures it is considered rude to look someone in the eye. In fact in southeast asia it is actually considered rude to look someone in the eye. Doing so when first meeting that person is a huge social faux pax…
Thanks Doc. I did not know that. It is true that as long as a person is alive, he learns something new every day.
That is very true! I know as an American (we make eye contact) the first time I was in Asia on business I had to work very hard not to make eye contact@
Seems like the perfect place for me, haha.
It probably would be, you could open a bakery and have a line around the block waiting for your deserts
Haha, I don’t know whether the locals would be interested, but I guess I could attract a few hipstery tourists. 😀
There you go, plus because they are hipstery you can charge more!!!
If this idea works out, I owe you a percentage of the gain, haha.
Deal! Actually, can I get a discount so I can enjoy the wonderful deserts?
I totally agree with you dear friend
I like your consent, dear friend.