Wakefield, Massachusetts April 15, 1983 I was about to turn 25 years old and close the books on one of the toughest years in my life. In the previous 5 months I had lost my Godmother to cancer and one of my best friends had been murdered. I had struggled and finally succeeded in giving up Cocaine, which had put me on a terrifying threshold coming to know and understand my limits. Relationships failed. Money was tight. I worked for minimum wage as a teacher aide in a classriom with severe and profoundly developmentally disabled teenagers. I wasn’t looking forward to turning 25. Friday afternoon as the school day was drawing to a close Karen my boss opened the classroom door. John, a lanky kid from her adjacent room came running in laughing nervously and presented me a boquet of red roses. “Happy birthday Paul!” Karen called and the other teachers and aides gathered by the door and applauded. I had to laugh.Two weeks before I had commented “Girls never give guys flowers”. Karen set out to prove me wrong. “Thanks Karen, you got me” I grinned. A few weeks later the program we worked for had a big budget cut. Karen and I and 20 of our co-workers were laid off. I didn’t stress about it, feeling confident I’d find another job, and now that Karen wasn’t my boss anymore, I became her boyfriend.

Sad and at the same time wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it with us!
Great story! I enjoyed reading
Thank you so much Thomas! 🙂
What a sweet birthday gesture! <3 and I'm glad you kicked the coke! Awesome post, Paul 🙂
Yes now the only coke I like comes in 12 ounce bottles packaged in GMO free Mexico made with real cane sugar…
Thanks for your sharing.I like your story.
Thank you for your comment Pradhan 🙂
Nice story, I hope you’re happy with Karen
Thank you Branka. The story was about events 35 years ago. Karen and I moved on but remain friends to this day.
Great story for sharing. Loved it!
Thank you LaJenna 🙂
I applaud your decision to wait to date- office romances can turn ugly fast…
Almost everyone there had at one point slept with one or more coworkers. Karen said she was attracted to me months before we hooked up but she thought I was involved with her ex-lover April. April was my drinking buddy and frequent flyer in shared cocaine escapades but I had no desire for her. April lied and told me she was still involved with Karen, then told Karen that she was involved with me, effectively keeping us apart all school year.
April, that old cockblocker. I don’t know why folks do that…
April was all but forgotten the first morning I woke up next to Karen…
Revenge is a dish best served hot and sweaty
Life is full of ups and downs, but that’s a cute story!
Thank you Ellie. It was a pretty funny moment and I was happy to be proven wrong 🙂