Do you have some people who offer you instant solutions for this, that and the other?
I get it sometimes from my elder siblings, who are very kind and mean well. I get it from the internet or someone who wants to be helpful.
When I tried to do what others wanted me to do I could do nothing. Yes, I really wanted to please them but I can not be anything anyone wants me to be. I can only be myself.
Anything you put your hands to do with honest hard work and you have a mind to do with your physical and mental abilities you do. If you apply yourself, you will be surprised at how much you can achieve with so little ..
I often wonder at my own creations and ask, did I really do this? Yes, I did.