Ghostwriter
Complete Failures happen all the time. They happen to many people. In fact here is a complete failure I have shared with you. I had put quite a bit of thought into it and I had a plan. I was fairly certain that my attitude and life would be a little brighter if I just followed through. I was wrong. It seemed like everything simply backfired.
So what if this complete disaster right in front of you and completely of your making, what do ” you” do?
I am probably not like most, I am going to talk about it and try to figure out where I went wrong and if I can tweak it into something a little more valuable than a total and complete failure. I will probably be talking to myself right here, and that’s okay. If someone has some input it is always appreciated and NEVER expected. (My expectations all died somewhere around 2020! I got overwhelmed, melted down, caused bodily and mental harm, and finally celebrated with an Expectation Funeral.) It was fabulous, let me know if want to hear those details.
Anyway, the experiment was a complete failure and still, the idea still inspires me a bit. I don’t particularly want to fail and that same task twice. (At least not right in a row.) If I do nothing it will always be sitting there as a complete failure.
I thought some music might help. The only song I could come up with was Rainy Days and Mondays.
And that doesn’t even make sense. It’s not raining and it’s not Monday.
It shouldn’t be so tough. I am not trying to change the world. I am just trying to change me.
I am not sure I know who I am any longer. Kind of lost.
Interesting and thought-provoking post. It is obvious that readership on Virily like this sort of post.
Well a few more people here commented. I guess that is the only way to know if people “here” are interested in something.
So, you are more relevant than you realized, you just need reminding a bit, now and again… We all do, you know! 🌻🌸🌺🌼
I, too, have experienced many failures. But somehow I picked up and moved on with life.
Then we should hear how you did it. I think that would be inspiring. I love to be inspired.
I often wonder who I have become.
would love to hear more of the event!
pulling success from the jaws of failure used to e a huge part of my job. Now it feels like I pull failure at times from the jaws of success. Not as easy to do anymore. Oh well.
we are bound to the path we choose.
I guess I am going to seek some new paths.
Did you follow the link?
do the carpenter’s song? Yes, it is one of my favorites!
I am sorry you are feeling that way and I believe unless someone says something really inspiring you may have to figure out for yourself what to do.
It is ultimately my job to fix me, so I plod forward.
Should we try to change who we are right now, or should we more allow ourselves to be changed by life and love, even by hardship, and then just try to accept the change that comes automatically?
The perfection of our self does not need to change, as God made us all perfect, so it’s really only the recogitionary mind that needs to accept that the heart was made by God, but the mind is left to us to manage ourselves.
If we connect to our heart, at all times, change happens automatically, as love changes us, but if we just stay in our mind, we will try, and try, to change over, and over again, but it can never happen for us, when we just try to change, without the power of love behind it.
Thanks for that perspective and information. It gives me a lot to work with.
I am glad that I could say something to help you here.
It makes me cringe whenever I would read that word Funeral. It is just a grim reality.
That’s what life is I guess – grim reality.
Maybe you don’t need to be changed. Just roll with the flow around you. Give yourself a break. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Stop beating yourself up. Just be YOU.