Ghostwriter
Yesterday Carol DM said something that made me think and reconsider the way I have been approaching Virily. it was something about doing the same thing over and over. A light went off in my brain and I remembered the 63 days.
It was a study I read about and was quite interesting to me. If you do or don’t do anything for 63 consecutive days it’s become a habit. Assuming the study I read is correct we’ve made a lot of Virily habits intentionally and unintentionally. “If you want to take back your life and feel like you are in control of somethings, recreate your life 63 days at a time.
My first 63 days begins today. If I can do it anyone can do it. I believe I started this once before and stopped because it was redundant. I think I have found a way to refreshen it up.
I attempted to tell my husband about it and after about a thirty-minute discussion he said “So you are building a cacoon and coming out a butterfly.”
“Well, kind of” I am intentionally making changes more permanent every day to learn, grow, and improve our lives.
“What do you mean our lives?”
“Everything we do affects other people. There is no way to stop that. You are an influence intentionally or not. I want to do positive things and create positive changes.”
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Question of
Do you think I can do anything 63 days in a row?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Would you like to make some changes in your life?
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Yes
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Question of
Have we all become a little redundant over time?
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Yes
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I stopped posting in one site for my personal reason. I just quit like that just the same I did when I quit smoking.
Well, I am doing what I want to do…Helping one husband that needs me 24 hrs a day. I bought a new fridge, because the old one was leaking and the light did not work and it was past its used by date.
However, I need a clothes drier because I am sick of drying wet washing indoors when it is raining so I need 3 things to clear out the garage to get the drier.
I need a garden shed for tools
I need to clear out that from the garage
I need a stand up freezer and clothes drier…
Then covid 19 lockdown 3 struck and I could not buy anything..
Now we are in lockdown 2.5 as from today, Monday 31st Aug…I can but some things have to be done first.
Thanks for the mention. I was really feeling down yesterday. Not a lot better today. Interesting about the 63 days and makes complete sense to me.