My late dad’s baby sister, Aunt Dorothy who was frail but stubborn, refused to move into a senior citizens’ care center and her strength was beginning to fail. She lived in my hometown. Occasionally she fell, and I would rush over there and lift her back up again.
When I began dating Daleen, who’s now my wife, Aunt Dorothy had kept up with our relationship. She was not shy. The very first time I invited Daleen to my house for a movie and a meal, Aunt Dorothy knew every last detail. At the end of our date that night, Aunt Dorothy phoned to ask if I would come over after Daleen left. When I arrived there, I found her sprawled out on the floor. She had fallen several hours earlier but did not want to “spoil” our date.
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That was thoughtful of your Aunt. I would do the same. I hate to be at the mercy of others.
She remained that way to the end of her life, I held her hand as she quietly slipped away.
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Sorry. I have stories of relatives that are sad as well. They want to hold on to their independence so bad.
I’m fiercely independent also but have had to accept what I can no longer control. 🙂