It is all about endings and closures now. It is about getting through what is, so perhaps there can be a future. It’s about finding who I am instead of remembering who I was. I am an orphan. I am alone in many different ways now and that all calls for adjustments. I am the sole support for seven people now- Work has become priority one.My attitude needs to be positive because that is the only thing that will carry me through. My choices have to be sound and well thought out. Here’s the list
1. Work every day possible
2. Look for good things everyday, don’t stop looking until I have ten good things that are different than the day before.
3. Remember that joy must be found in the journey, waiting for the destination isn’t an option.
4. Be kind, first to myself and then to everyone I meet
5. Learn compassion
6. Adjust to the new life you must create
7. Find a way to mourn that causes harm to no one
8. Survive tenaciously
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Question of
Are you having a great day?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Do you believe that taking care of others brings great joy?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Have you found your place in the world?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Do you believe you can’t work around it, you have to work through it?
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Yes
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No
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Especially for the seniors, working everyday is a must.
I often feel alone as well, as far as family goes. And yes, we must go through the pain. Push through to make it to the other side.
You have a very good set of goals.
Actually I helped a very poor lady today and I think It was very great day for me