To love one another is nevertheless looking into each other’s eyes, openly and boldly, when both hold each other’s gaze, sometimes even angry, capricious, dumb, tired or judgmental, and eventually smile, with love and forgiveness.
Because to love we should with open eyes, especially when it comes to imperfections. They must be clearly seen and loved first, otherwise, they will end the relationship. Looking in one direction is not bad, but you only see each other in lateral vision or you can’t see at all.
And most important in love – eyes wide open and, paradoxically, eyes wide closed. For example, to not see what is bothering you, all sorts of little things of another person you can’t fall in love with.
Wednesday greetings with love, unfortunately not from the sunny but from the charmingly melancholy raining Lithuania.
© Fortune, 2009
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