There are people for whom everything is just getting worse. These are the people you will find after a couple of years in the same sweater complaining about the same workplace, which they do not want to change, moaning about the same spouse he had tended to betray already a few years ago. Those people will surely ask about your health and boldly classify migraine as a brain tumor. They may even begin to pull the medicine out of the basket right away – there are many, many, many of them.
They will be happy to listen to your problems and obstacles, and when you start telling what’s good going on, they’ll become anxious until they finally go to the toilet. They will encourage you to question everything – a new apartment (what an ugly area, beware, it is dangerous to walk). You have a good relationship with your spouse – wait, wait, this is always the case at the beginning (and the weirdest thing is that for them, getting started is a broad term – from weeks to several years).
After such a chat for a couple of hours you go home weighing in at 5 kilos more and everything looks black somehow, boring. You feel even little nausea and want to sleep. Sometimes I have a headache. And usually, I never call them again.
Have you ever met people with a dark vision of the world?