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“In geology, a fault is a planar fracture or discontinuity in a volume of rock across which there has been significant displacement as a result of rock-mass movement.” – Wikipedia
However, I’m not talking about this “fault”, I’m talking about “whose fault is it?”, that fault. But of course, there are some similarity between the the 2.1) obviously that something is “displaced” or “discontinued”.
2) There would usually be pressure/compression of some sort.
Anyway, why am I bringing this up?
Well, I did mention about the miscommunication or lack of communication of the company I delivered for. They have since stopped giving me assignment for a few weeks.
They claimed that they’ve a parcel with me that I didn’t delivered. But I can swear that I’ve delivered all the parcels I’ve gotten from them.
Well it could be the parcel that was delivered to me when I was overseas. I did see a notification but with limited internet access, I couldn’t do much about it. I couldn’t even open the message until a later time. I asked my sister (who didn’t join in the trip) to double check for parcel after she returned from work, and she said there was none.
I’m not going to sulk and swear about “losing” this job, because if they’re really going to do so without investigating (never even asking me for any verification and information) then they’re not worth working for.
But I must admit that I was a little affected for a while thinking that I was at fault for not checking the notification fast enough until my sister told me that It wasn’t my fault, since I’ve given enough notification and reminders about me going overseas for that week but she still sent the parcel to me.
Well, just trying to say that. When its your fault, own it, but when its not, stop blaming yourself! I’m glad my sister snapped me out of it!
P.s: I mentioned about the cover image issue being fixed, but it seems like it has not. I still need to refresh the page. Sorry for the wrong information previously.
Rules:
1) Post a anything, e.g: photo/art/poem/story/memories (not limited to) of anything that starts with the alphabet! You can go at your own pace for this challenge 🙂
2) Remember to put “Alphabet Crazy” in your title!
3) You’re free to combine with other challenges! Nobody say you can’t post a red aeroplane or blue elephant :p
4) You’re welcome to post non-English words (say your native language) but DO explain its meaning to us, so that we can learn from each other!
5) HAVE FUN!!
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Question of
Do you blame yourself for things that are not your fault?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Have you be blamed for something you have no chance to explain?
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Yes
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No
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. You have been clear and honest. Then your conscience is clean.
Yes, my conscious is clear as glass. 🙂
unfortunate how things turned out.
Yes, well that has been done to me before as well…not nice…You will survive it..
Responsibility is a trait most, if not all, people admire and cherish, but that comes with owning faults that don’t belong to us. And vice versa. I think you were responsible enough. ?
Unfortunately things aren’t always fair, and unless you plan to avenge, all you’re left with is experience. And so are they, firing you for one isolated case of miscommunication ain’t that smart.
I guess that’s the way it is. Things aren’t always fair and I do get the experience, albeit not a good one 😐
My conscience is clean at least 🙂
Many times I blame myself even though I am not guilty. I am the kind of person to blame and blame myself for every little thing
Well, you don’t deserve all that blames!
Try and be nicer to yourself 🙂
You’re a fine person and deserves better.
you’re better off without that job- they were jackasses to begin with
LOL. Thanks for being supportive!
Yes, no regrets about losing this one.
I know I did the best I can, others are really not within my control.
they were messing with you, best to end it soon as possible
that’s what they did actually …
but I think its good for me too
I don’t care what is good for them, only your situation matters to me
Thanks Alex, that’s the best thing I’ve heard this week 😀
bu ku xi, you need to hang out with folks who treat you better
The word Fault is directly connected to the word Blame.
Well, unfortunately, that is quite true!
A very frustrating feeling to be blamed when you are innocent. 🙁
Yes, doesn’t feel too good.
But that’s how it is …
but at least my conscious is clear.