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How to Tame Feral Cats


Perhaps you’ve had contact with or have seen feral cats. You might even feed them. They are surprisingly common, though people don’t always realize that they are feral.

Contrary to popular belief, feral cats aren’t necessarily the offspring of domesticated cats that became wild. All animals, domesticated or not, when they are left alone to fend for themselves, must either adapt and survive or die. Most often, adaptations involve using instincts and reverting back to a wilder state. This is where feral cats come in and what they are. Some people may prefer to think of these as stray cats, but the following applies regardless of what definition you use. Here, we use the definition stated by

a. Having returned to an untamed state from domestication.

b. Existing in a wild or untamed state.

It is rather appropriate that we rescued 19 “throw away” cats, most of them in a feral state. With the exception of three, all of the rest have been tamed, and several of them love and crave attention. They became ideal pets for a number of people. Several became our house pets and another was adopted by a vet who fell in love with her. The one in the top picture, Paws, was one of those cats and was less than two months old when he was rescued. Two of the other cats had never been around people.


How do you tame them? First, consider the house cat; used to getting food, water, and a little attention in the home. When they are abandoned, their lives do an abrupt flip-flop. The attention and comforts of home living are no longer important. The cat’s first need is to survive. It must find food when it can and quickly grows wary of other cats or creatures that would take the food away or those that might harm it, including people. It resorts to instinctual measures or it dies. As sickening as it might sound, some people will purposely kill stray cats, just because they are stray cats.

This means that the animal must become more and more wild, and less trusting of any other creature, including man. They will run, hiss, fight, claw and bite if they feel a threat. A cat that may have had a loving home but that was dumped can be feral in a year or less. It is often necessary in order to live.

To tame a feral cat requires a lot of patience. It is necessary to undo the drive for independence and surviving for survival’s sake. Trust needs to again be earned. 

The best step is to bring them into the house. It isn’t always possible, but if it is, they are out of the elements and have time to get used to people again, without feeling threatened. Taking care of and taming outside feral cats is more time consuming, though they still need to have shelter, so you need to provide it.


Allow the cat to become used to your presence. This doesn’t mean trying to grab or pick up the cat. Let it come to you. It may be some time before it will allow you to pick it up. If it gets to the point that it lets you pet it, you are making great headway. If you try to pick the cat up or hold it before the trust is there and the cat is ready, you distill distrust and fear, which means that you might have to start over at square one.

Cats can quickly associate food and water with people, even if the cats are more or less wild (as in the case of those that are one or more generations removed from human contact.) They are intelligent animals and can figure out and sense if there is a harmful intent. Rapid motions around the cat are not a good idea because the animal can see this as threatening. Loud noises should also be avoided.


When the cat does come to you, pet it, scratch its ears, talk to it in calm, reassuring tones, but again don’t try to hold it. When it wants to get into your lap, it will get into your lap. Pushing the issue causes distrust. That is the last thing you want. Once the cat knows it can trust you and knows you won’t harm it, taming is fairly simple. Give the cat attention on its terms, not yours. When it wants attention, give it, but let the feline decide when it wants to get the attention. This puts the control into the hands, or paws, of the cat. They come around much easier if they feel they have the control.

Simply by doing this, and following these steps, we have tamed close to 200 feral cats so far in just the last 37 years, and quite a few wild ones as well. Most of these became pets in loving homes. Anyone can do it. It does require a lot of patience, though, and to learn how to tame feral cats. It isn’t difficult to do, but it just takes time. It should also be understood that not all cats will become tame again, depending on their circumstances, the personality of the cat, and what it has gone through. Even in this case, though, it is possible to give the cat a far better quality of life than it otherwise would have.

The biggest pity is that people abandon their pets, to begin with. However, they do this in nearly all areas. Throw-away pets are far too common. The simple truth is that many of these animals die or are killed through no fault of the pet and the practice of abandoning them is cruel. To my way of thinking, abandoning a pet is far worse than killing food animals for their meat.

All of the cats shown here were rescued abandoned cats.


What do you think?


Written by Rex Trulove

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  1. Working at several humane societies over the years. I am very familiar with ferals. Still have a scar to from a little momma that had a litter over night. The animal control forgot to put the feral sign up. I got nailed the next day, I opened the cage and she let me have it. I realized she was feral a second two late. Great article here and every thing is correct. You do great work with these guys and girls.

  2. I used to feed the street cats where I used to live and they would come get the food. One even would walk me to my building. I have two cats. One was 13 weeks old when I got her and I would feed her, give her water and play and talk to her. She was a lovely cat. She lived to 20 years old. I got my recent cat after my first cat died. She is a challenge. I forgot what to do so asked a friend. She was frightened and in strange home. I would talk to her and put her litter box and food and water by the opening where she was and eventually she would come out. I play with her and talk to her and pet her when she comes to me. I have had her since she was 3 months old and she is now 3 years old.

    • It is also quite possible that your current fur baby simply had/has a different temperament. One of our cats is less than 3 months old and is totally loving. She doesn’t care if she is held on her back or any which way. Another of our cats has a totally different personality and he doesn’t even like petting, except when he actually asks for it. He definitely doesn’t like to be held. He was also born to a barn cat, so some of the attitude could have come from momma.

  3. they are all cute. yeah, i think they can be tamed for indoor living because these cats have abandonment issues, and they just need time to heal with people who care for them and love them. they just want attention, like any other pet or furry child.


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