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Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage

I know its only left in India and some other countries but still many would be interesting in answering that. Will you prefer to have an arranged marriage means a marriage arranged by parents or the love marriage.

Hope to know about some honest answers.

  • Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage

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Written by SUPERSINGH

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  1. Never, one can not be sure. It’s a tricky choice. Now live without marriage, for example, for 10 years. marry in love and after 1 year of divorce. Disparity of characters. Others make a regular marriage (or financial interest) and it continues until death divides them.

  2. I married a woman I loved, even though she was older than me, and that my family opposed our marriage at first. Now, after a long time passed, my wife is the person my mother loves most and all my siblings, including their families.

  3. As the saying goes marriages are made in heaven. But once the marriage is completed it is up to the couple to take time understand each other and make it work. It is a long lifetime ride and we should be ready to travel the lows and also enjoy the high’s and at the end of the day the bond should never break. It is not easy but it is not difficult too. It is upto the individuals involved as to what they do with their relationship.

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  4. Well this is a good topic here. The arranged verses the finding your own love. I have friends in India, one friend of mines comments to me one day really interested me. He was 20 years old at the time, living in India. His mom was a doctor in England and he spent half of his time there as well as with his father. The mom thought he should choose his own love, his father being more traditional wanted to arrange the marriage. His mom won the battle and he was left to find his love. They say with an arranged marriage you meet and fall in love with this person over time, and you never have to marry someone you detest, meaning to some degree even in an arranged marriage you have a choice. He was kind of upset after years of trying to find love on his own and being unsuccessful he wanted an arranged marriage. I can see both sides of this. I had no yes or no answer to this.

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