Bro had one child and she was born on August 13th. She was killed in a car accident when she was 23. He married his second wife in August, she has since passed away and that date rolls around he becomes melancholy . I was married in August and we really can’t even remember the date. We now just pick a day in August and call it good. (There’s a bit of a story behind it, but it is just better to pick a day so no one gets feelings hurt.)
Today Bro told me he would speak to me when August was over. So when I took him up his lunch I just put it on his table and came back down. Normally I would have eaten lunch with him. I really wasn’t interested in eating with no real company.
This afternoon he complained to my husband that I didn’t stay and eat with him. So I guess tonight I will go and eat with him and be silent. I am really quite unsure of what I am supposed to do. I guess we will figure something out. We usually do.
You are a hero for what you carry. I am sending you all the positive energy I have!!!!!
August is called Ghost Month by the Chinese here.
That is really interesting I had no idea.
I can understand that all too well. Just take it all is it comes.
So sad for your brother and you.