Elena Bojchovska
To all the people who, on one way or another, at some point of the time disappointed you and made you feel miserable: Thank you! From the bottom of your hearts, with no doubts! Thank you! As they form part of the process of everything that brought you right where you are and made you right who you are. Today you are the best version of yourself! That’s the moment you acknowledge and realize everyone’s purpose in your life. And when you really understand that very purpose, you would like to once again and even more sincere thank them for what they once did.
This leads to only one conclusion: everything that’s gone it’s gone. It’s already a past. A memory. It’s over. It does not exist anymore. Most of the people, with their thoughts, keep on going back to the past and live in it over and over again, therefore they suffer the same every single day. They create pictures about the past events and the people who used to be part of their lives in the past. With the simple act of thinking, you create emotions.
The mother of the emotions is the thought. Every single thought creates an vibration which is the emotion. Therefore, at least for a moment, forget about everything and leave it behind you. You only have the “now” which is what matters.
But not only do the people over-think their past, but their future as well. They tend to think about the future events and their possible failure. They make a whole movie about how and why they won’t achieve their goals in the future. But they all don’t know that instead of burning their brains with whatever they do not want to happen, they should think about their success, imagining themselves winning in the battles of the life, living a happy life. The past is already gone. It’s out of the frame. You cannot live there anymore. All you have is now! Make sure you are wide awake and you fully live every moment in the present. The bad news is that you will never be able to live the same moment twice. Therefore, appreciate it, appreciate the privilege to live your life as you wish!
Thank you for the excellent advice. I am learning not to allow roadblocks from doing the best that I can do to share good news stories on this site.
The more you practise, the more you master it! You are doing well!!
That is some very good advice.
Elena wrote well only in everything but completely disagree with you – why should I forget what happened to me in life – it’s not nice if you remember at least the nice moments – bad ones, but I think you might forget, although somewhere in the subconscious also You never forget them. But I totally agree with you that stupidity is to live in illusions and dreams-live as you have devoted your life and enjoy every moment because life is so and so too short-have fun and enjoy life
When I say you have to forget about the past, I always refer to the bad memories taht does not allow you to move forward! You misunderstood me.
I apologize if I misunderstood – however fast the post is very good – nice greeting
It is perfectly fine even if you do not agree with me 🙂 That’s only my point of view, my reality
I understand you and do not want to be angry
I have to disagree with you on this… “A memory. It’s over. It does not exist anymore.”
Memories are forever. They are what get me through this thing called life.
But the rest I agree with.
I said it in a sense that what it’s done, it’s done. One does not have the power to go back in the past and undo the things. I appreciate your opinion though! 🙂 Thank you!
I got it now, thank you my friend for explaining. 🙂 We are always on the same page.
I´m glad you understood me. That´s what I refered to 🙂