No is no conflict that does not include one simple, single question, “What am I?”
This great truth has been expressed by countless soothsayers and philosophers in both ancient times as well as in the present time. The single cause of all suffering is forgetting the true nature of your “unconditioned” self. If you are not absolutely clear on who you really are, how can you know what is best for you? Your lack of self-knowledge plays itself out in many ways that do not necessarily fit you.
Even the great book demands from us:”Know thine own self, first.”