The Hole Is Already There (5/8)

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1. I just read Carol, Elenka, and LaJenna’s replies and they all three couldn’t of said it better, knowing the pain they have endeared. They along with you are also prime examples of how to continue.

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   • Well, that’s life, Kim. No one can erase the memory from the brain. Forgot is not really erased but buried deep inside the pile. While emotion is the strongest glue to bind the memory. Thus, only the ability to maturing the mind that capable to actually seeing or realizing the holes as a benefit in life.

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     • I agree. I think this also comes easier with age…

2. Yes thee whole is forever, but learning to accept peace to come back alive within us, will prove to be rewarding.

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   • You are 100% correct! Your wisdom is very convincing!

3. I was deeply hurt. I think the wound bleeds from time to time when I go back to sleep.

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   • I’m sure your wisdom has absorbed the essence as a life lesson to be as strong as it is today.

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4. A forever hole in my heart is what I have.

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   • I am sure you sincerely accept the existence of the hole because you are steadfast and wise.

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     • Yes, the hole is the loss of my child and can never ever be filled. But I will continue forward one step at a time. Sorry if I am getting too deep and personal.

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       • I really understand your loss, and I am happy to hear your openness. Who knows our chat is benefiting others.

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         • I hope it is benefiting someone even if they do not respond.

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       • You are right, Carol. I am very glad that you are so open to share your experience.

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