So I have agreed to do it his way for 30 days. If things change and there is interaction, this will remain one of our temporary homes. If not, then it is time to move on.
It’s all about math because that is solid evidence. It is something concrete that he can deal with even with the Alzheimers. He will count the number of comments I make. If there is a 65% return I will continue. If not we will move on.
This is a tough one for me because this site was once very welcoming and teamwork was great. Now it is largely “what’s wrong with this site”. We seem to reward those kinds of behaviors, so I assume that is what the majority wants.
My family comes first and some of you have reached family status. I am certain that you know who you are. So the deciding date is March 25th and it really is up to you.
For some added value we should talk about something totally different. So answer the poll question and we’ll see if you are interested.
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Do you want Mom’s recipe for Pecan Pie Brownies?
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Yes
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No
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Yeah, those Brownies look great, If you share the recipe, I’ll bake them.
Doubling comments here as well…. would love the recipe for these delicous looking brownies.
Well, you know that I am touched and grateful that you care. I don’t know that it would be fair to double comment either. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard spot. This and westerns that he has seen 10000 times are the things he lives for. It really is hard to know what to do.
Do your best, never give up, treasure the moments you have, and move on to the next day.
The comments and views are not what they used to be. I keep trying to hold out hope.
I hear you. I am sharing twice as much on social media of the posts that I feel someone outside of this little group would care about.
Who knows what is cared about any more, I am jus posting what I like lately.
i am also going to comment double on your posts for a while!
No, that’s no better than commenting on them myself over and over. (Although that makes those that do that share the few virils.) He wants me to report what I do every day for a week and see if that makes a difference. I don’t have the heart to tell him it won’t matter.
i understand both the situation and the ask in the end.
i struggle with the same issue your husband has brought up.
i wish I had an easy answer!
The easy answer is to do something different, but I am not sure what that would be.
there are many different places I don’t like feeling that I am giving up though.
Hmm… That pecan pie brownies recipe sounds interesting.