Ghostwriter
Here is the hard fact. No one can take you on a guilt trip unless you are packed and ready to go. You have to agree to take on their issue and be part of the solution.
You have the ability and the right to give a polite “no” to any situation. Don’t make it personal and don’t take it personally. It does not even require a reason. Here are some possible responses.
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“I understand you are looking for help. I am not available to be that person.”
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“I am sure you have the skills and contacts to get it resolved. I am not the person who can help you.”
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“Sounds like you have some challenges. I am sure you will learn much by working them out.”
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“Yes, we are friends and I am a busy friend. You can do this.”
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“I know that sharing concerns can be helpful. I was happy to listen today. I know you can make good choices.”
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Question of
Do you often fall for guilt trips?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Do you guilt others into helping you?
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Is this something you are interested in learning more about?
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Yes
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No
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These are good tips. c”,)
And houda, I am interested. What did you find most useful?
Yes and no… sometimes we all unknowingly do something bad … or maybe this is just an excuse … lol
And I realised sometimes people around me knows how to make me go their way and when I knwo it, I’m halfway thru… kinda sucks
I believe that guilt has a place, in moderation.
Yes, only when in moderation
Thanks for the useful tips.