Hello everyone this has been bugging me all morning and instead of thinking about it anymore just jotting it down so A. I don’t forget and B. Still fresh in my mind. I’m not the type of person that expresses feelings that much or holds the bad things in but I will get them out in some way shape or form. This friend i know is going through some tough times and he is pretty much in that dark area that nothing matters and bad things. I feel his pain because I been there a d went threw it myself. The pain of divorce. Yea it’s a painful time dealing with it hell he have kids with her as well which makes it even harder. I didn’t have kids but was still painful when you think everything is going so good and bam you get a knock at the door and you have been served. All you can think about is WHY!!!! Can we work this out? What can I do to make things right. Well yes there will be pain and stress and struggle. But coming from what I went threw was hell and that’s putting it nicely. Then you find out that she already has another boyfriend and now shit just got real!! Your mind goes about a million mph. Your like what the hell I do to you to deserve this. Well long story short my friend there will be pain and certain pictures and songs will draw you back. But live is like lessons and learns you fuck up sometimes and other times you succeed and things. Don’t let your emotions take over because if you do then you will be a hermit. Let this be a lesson not to go to that dark place where people don’t like to be make it to where she fucked up and that’s her loss and your gain don’t let negativity be the bully let you positivity run wild. HOPE this helps as little bit and gets you threw.
One and only Dubzanator
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Thank you yes that’s very true thanks for your Input
Hope things get worked out smoothly. Life can throw us all curveballs.
The best way to get through something like this is to consider what went wrong, not blame anyone, just make a note of lessons learned and go on from there.