jaylar
Meeting the family of your Intended, not just Mommy and Daddy, but the whole genetic interplay, is better than gazing into a crystal ball.
Looking at them, not only the shapes and styles but the interactions between them, you can see ‘the future’; that is Your Future.
You can see where your intended will be in twenty/thirty years.
Not just physically, but emotionally, intellectually; in short, it is likely what s/he will become is portrayed by those relatives in front of you.
When you meet them you can see not only their life styles, but how they interact, what matters to them, what doesn’t.If you don’t like what you see, get out now.
Don’t think your intended is an aberration from his gene pool.
true to a degree, but people change and evolve. I have many friends whose parents were alcoholics, they do not drink or overuse anything. Family can be a warning, but it can also show the path not taken!
There is a genetic component which one can’t outgrow or change.
but one has to be very gifted to see those things. You are more likely to be swayed by social interactions than anything.
Yes, and seeing how Daddy treats Mommy, how any of the younger siblings act and the response they get gives you a glimpse into the background of your intended.
if you go 10 times maybe.
once? the first time? nerves change people in the short term
I am not sure if meeting the family might scare some away!
It would… imagine someone really gorgeous whose family are all fat and scowly