In these few days, I worked in a clubhouse and met a clubhouse girl who is a clubhouse staff, while I am a swimming pool lifeguard there!
In clubhouse, we rarely met each other, but we will meet when she come to swimming pool and check the swimming pool water quality and temperature ! But we only will talk about whether the pool water quality is ok or not and take the photo as recorded to the office, but not talking the other things! I know she doesn’t have any interest to me!
And I even don’t know her name ! But I am curious of her and want to know more about her! Then i find out her name and look at the attendance sheet and find out her name so i record down to my WhatsApp of her true name and nickname ! So i try to find her Facebook and instagram account and see if I am lucky to see her public photos and information of her, though she doesn’t know ! ( And I don’t add her because I don’t want her to know )
So I would like to know if I am ethically doing wrong things or not ?
it is not easy to talk with her!
I think we should directly communicate with her
Why do not you address her directly? It’s the best thing you can do if you like it!?