Other Female Abusers ‘buy’ their victims.
Many 1st World Women arrive in the 3rd World, usually with a diplomatic mission or a multi-national corporation; not as a tourist. These women need time and opportunity to find their victim.
They use their money and the lure of citizenship in a 1st world nation to catch their prey.
The ‘Victim’ is often a reasonably attractive man who had ambition, but due to poverty or the lack of opportunity, has settled into some low level job.
The Female Abuser enters his life, at first, behaving as an equal, when she KNOWs that she is Superior, and he KNOWs it as well.
During this performance, she can take him to the best places, buy him the best clothes, put him in the best houses.
For the first time, he feels like ‘somebody’.
Depending on how ‘hungry’ he is for the ‘better life’, the Female Abuser can gauge how easy or hard the purchase will be.