It must be noted that the drunken husband who comes home and beats his wife bloody, is only one example of an Abuser.
The angry shouting boss, who treats his workers as dirt, is only one version.
Abuse is not just physical. Abuse is not just those insults and threats.
When a person is made to feel inadequate, when a person obeys without thought of their own desires, that is also Abuse.
The woman who enters a man’s life and destroys all his previous relationships so that she is his only conduit, is an Abuser.
The Boss who makes the employee feel that he has to stay late without pay or take work home, is an Abuser.
Many Victims never catch they are victims, and bounce from one bad relationship to another, because they don’t realise it.