My 10 Motives for Loving People

Part One

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I love people, locally and globally. It is who I am, wherever I am. It is what I do and I love what I do. I have at least ten motives for loving people. They include:

• We Are All Different
• We Enjoy Biological Difference
• We Are Driven to Achieve
• We Care About Others
• We Are Organizers
• We Want to Know
• We Are a Species of Faith
• We Are Creative
• We Are committed to Our Existence
• We Are Dreamers

This installment reveals my first three motives for loving people. People are fascinating to experience and appreciate across the global village. We all share a common DNA and yet we are all very different. We don’t all do things the same way. We don’t all like the same food, customs, dances, gods, or politics. We all make children and hope to create a better life for our children than we had. We are the fruit of the Earth. Many of us consider we are the offspring of the divine.

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1. We are all different. Our music is different. Our clothes are different. Our food is different. Our cars are different. Our holidays are different. Not all cultures celebrate Christmas, Ramadan, Kwanzaa or Hanukkah.

We look different. Some of our complexions are very pale. Others of us are very dark. Some have thin lips and thin noses. Others have thick lips and thick noses. Some have very straight hair. Others have very tight curled hair. Some cultures totally cover their bodies while others live their lives in more revealing apparel. I am about loving people because we all bring flavor to the banquet table of life with our uniquely distinct differences.

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2. We enjoy biological expression. A sexually repressed human is not a happy human. One sex and one way of sex would make for a very dull and boring world. We human are not invested in either. The biological mating interaction between males and females across Planet Earth is legendary however it happens. The unions and relationships of humans are limited by the participants’ imaginations and motivations.

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Sex and Love cannot be restrained by notions of convention and tradition. Men and women find each other to love. Men and men find each other to love. Women and women find each other to love. The polyamorous and the transgendered will not be confined to the expectations of others.

Epic love stories have been written about the great lovers of Earth cultures. The inner compelling in all of us to mate supersedes culture, religion, economics, and education. Human sexual expression will not be denied. Wars cannot stop it.

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We find a way to express this component of our personalities. All of our choices may not good choices and many times not even in our best interests but we will not be deterred. A sexually repressed human is not a happy human.

While sex and love are utilitarian to our species, the rules actually hinder very few of us from expressing what you feel and want to share with another or others. To sexual expression, we are committed. We have sex because we must. Dam the rules.

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3. We are driven to achieve. We do not want the ordinary. We want the best. We want the prize. Tell us humans wherever we are what we should not do or cannot do and we will find a way and show you how. When we evolved beyond our bipedal experience walking everywhere and developed carts other people or animals could pull, we have not looked back.

We developed the ship to cross oceans and trains to cross continents. When we were told we could never fly, we flew first by balloon and then by planes. We have moved from the wheel to the stars and we are on our way to Mars and beyond. Tell us humans what we cannot do and we humans will find a way to achieve the impossible. We are driven to achieve.

When the series continues we will explore our care for others, how ewe are organizers and our hunger for wanting to know all we can know.  Coming soon, Part Two