You can only have it once you have given it.

One of the most misunderstood concepts out there, this human quality is asked for yet seldom given. Some even try to take it by force or buy it, but if you are unable to show it to others and treat them as equals you will never be able to truly earn their respect. People respect bravery, intelligence, skill, talent, compassion, and physical and mental strength, and these things cannot be faked.