HOW TO AVOID MAKING USELESS, DANGEROUS DECISIONS

Decisions are things you need to take constantly here at Virily, at home, and on the work front. But too often we resort to making valueless decisions which leave us affected badly and in a complete mess. While making decisions, you need to follow a few pointers. What are they? Well, here are a few of them:

 *  Make decisions only when you are calm and relatively happier It is better to make decisions when you are at this state because your thoughts will be crystal clear and you will be feeling good about yourself and therefore, good decisions will be made. 

* It never pays to make hasty decisions when you are distraught and stressed out. Discuss with your spouse or a close friend when you need to make a decision If you are having difficulty making a decision regarding something, you can consult someone close or a loved one. Talking with them may help you to see a problem in a new light and therefore, help you to make a decision more appropriately. 

* When you are bogged down, delay making decisions for a later time You may be going through a low time or even having suicidal thoughts while making a decision about certain issues; just stop thinking about it and distract yourself. Call a friend or distract yourself in some other way by focusing on something entirely different. There is no need to make a decision right at this time. Instead, prolong it for later when you are better able to handle it, especially after a good night’s sleep or a comfortable afternoon nap. 

* Research the pros and cons of your decision When you are in a calm, good mood, find the good points of the decision you have taken. That action would explain how it would have put you at an advantage or disadvantage. If the pros outweigh the cons,  go for it. Hopefully, you will be able to handle the bad points, which are a minority. 

* After you have made a decision, take action fast In our competitive age, it is important that you make well-defined decisions and once you have made them, there is no need to dwell on them but to act quickly and take the appropriate action. That way you will win and your family/career/business will soar. Summing up, those are the few pointers you really need to pay attention to when making good and proper decisions. Follow them and you can be sure to thrive on the home and work fronts.