Most people really do want to be liked and have friends. Sometimes it is very hard for people to make that happen. So I did a few hours of research to see if I could find what might be helpful for those who are struggling. I believe most of us do all of these things on a great day, and might struggle on a day that is not so great!
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Use our manners. Words like please and thank you are always appreciated.
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Ask those we are visiting with how they are and see what they may want to talk about.
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Show that you have confidence in their skills.
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Show empathy when needed.
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I am sorry. (Because no one is perfect feelings get hurt.)
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Be sincere
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Be interested
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Be engaged
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Be helpful
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Be friendly
Thanks for the reminder …
while its hard to practice them all, we should all try to …
Alibb ~ you are not lagging in any of these skills. It was more of a reminder to myself. How is your day today?