Another ‘tell’ is that People Who Can’t Do Better will always take the ‘anti’ of your ‘pro’ .
If you wind up in any kind of relationship with them, no matter what you suggest, no matter how wise, they must take the ‘other side’.
If they know you want; (whatever) they will deny you.
No matter the price for them, no matter the discomfort and obligations they will take on, as long as you want it, they will try to take it or destroy it.
It is obvious that dealing with a Person Who Can’t Do Better you go for the opposite of your desire.
If you don’t want to go out, claim you do. If you want a dog, act as if you don’t like animals.
People who can’t do better need to ‘dominate’ you.