Many First World Women will marry their Third World ‘slave’. She has all the money, he has none. He can not work. At first he is content to ‘live off of her’ thinking he is so clever.
Maybe it ua when he says he is hungry and she doesn’t stop at the restaurant.
Maybe it is when he wants something and she refuses to buy it for him.
Maybe it is when she decides that she is going to some function without him, or she determines if and when he can go home.
He realises he has no money, that he has no rights, that he is to do what she says. He has no choice. Outside of throwing himself off a balcony or getting arrested, he is under her thumb.
And when he realises this, he also appreciates that dare he object, dare he lash out, he will be thrown in the trash.