jaylar
In other cases, a 3rd World Woman, an Abuser, gets a 1st World man, her Victim, to marry her.
This ‘switch’ is accomplished by the Woman making the Man think he owns her.
The man thinks he is in charge. He feels like he’s gone to the 3rd World and bought himself a slave. A slave who embraces her slavery.
He does not realise that as soon as she gets her Citizenship she is going to take everything she can.
Some of these women will park her entire family on his pocket, and insure that each one gets their papers before discarding her husband.
Discarding him but taking everything she can.
He doesn’t realise he has been played. He assumes, as a First World Man and she a pitiful Third World Woman, that he is in charge.
During her process of gaining citizenship he will usually lose his family and friends. His wife and her family fills every corner of his life.
This is important to maintain control over him.
Never realised people did this to others. Sad
It is common. The man thinks the woman is inferior, weak, stupid, and he ‘owns’ her. She gets what she wants, her family gets what they want, and then they get rid of him. He never sees it coming.
I have experiences where I have seen women who have been physically abused by their partners.
One woman is now in Christchurch because her partner put her in hospital.
Then again, alcohol was a factor.
Another is sadder, the woman is disabled and her partner actually starves her and takes off to spend all her money.
Her family members are physically abusive to her and to him.
She got the police they rescued her and then she went back to him. This has happened time and time again.
I am there but I can’t save her. Sad situation.
I am fortunate to have a very loving and kind husband.
There are many different kind of cases of abuse. The point is, as you brought up, the disabled woman who goes back to her abuser. This kind of mental abberation is common.