How do you get back into the dating scene?

Tell me something how can somebody get back into the dating after being out of the dating scene for 20 years? I haven’t dated in 20 years I don’t even know how you date anymore. I don’t know where you go to find someone.

The reason why I haven’t dated in 20 years well it’s because everybody that I’ve dated always had something bad to say about me being too fat, not attractive enough, not girlfriend material. After hearing that for 20 years I kind of tend to believe it after a while.

So, how does somebody start caring about themselves after 20 years of hating their selves hating what they look like hating what they just taking their selves so badly that they don’t even care what they look like anymore? How do you start loving yourself how do you start letting yourself feel better feel pretty how do you do that after 20 years of hating yourself so much and blaming yourself for the reason why you don’t go dating are you can’t meet somebody because of your looks because of your weight because you are Too much of a tomboy or just too weird or people just don’t understand you or get you. If anybody has an advice for me on how to meet somebody or places to go or even how to have fun I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you and God bless you all.