Babsy has more rules that the average prison. She makes them and uses them to annoy any and everyone in her ambit.
Babsy can phone you at any time she decrees. If you are annoyed she takes offense.
However, you can not call Babsy without ‘permission’.
She bans certain terms and admonishes you dare you use them.
She seems to believe she is some guru who knows the secrets of life.
Society rules do not apply to her, her rules apply to everyone who enters her line of sight.
Babsy is the kind of must avoid hazard, like nuclear waste.