There are Bunga Boys who don’t ‘define’ themselves. Unable to reason they simply think in one direction. Their thought processes are very simple;
Older Woman with money wants me
Some are ‘allowed’ to ‘play’ the ‘man’ of the family and do not comprehend that this is the woman’s choice, thinking they ‘control her.’
These often wind up on the road because they don’t grasp the fact that the woman demands fidelity or honesty.
The inability to reason, to define, to comprehend reality works in favour of the ‘benefactor’ who might have thought she had been able to buy a younger viral man who will make her happy.
Realising that she has made a mistake, she can sweep him out as so much rubbish.