Ronel Mcintosh
Trying to discover yourself in any society is difficult. However, today’s world has dramatically changed, we are unable to create a structured sense of self as it is constantly changing. Individuals are constantly striving to be the best in a competition that many are losing. The challenge is never to compete with others, the challenge is to compete with yourself. By working on yourself and discovering the little things, one can see the connections to the bigger things in life. Ultimately changing your worldview and the way in which you see yourself in society.
Consider this:
1) Try to compete with yourself not others. 2) Try to find the goals that are best suited for you and are not subjectively placed onto you from others.3) Try to find your unique self, attempting to copy another is not being unique.4) Embrace who you are. From all spectrum’s; mentally, emotionally, physically, intellectually.5) Be conscious of the decisions that you are making – are you making them or are you being dictated to?6) Be aware of those around you – are you in a negative or positive environment? If this is not working for you, do not be afraid to change it.7) Do what you love – do not be afraid of what others may think.8) Remember that you are strong enough to weather any storm, and strong enough to embrace any light9) Allow yourself to truly feel, engage with your emotions, it will enable you to discover the multiple layers that you consist of.10) Always try to remain true to your character and your way of being, never feel that you have less of an opinion than another.
Always try to remember: you can work on yourself, you can become the person who is perceptive and engaging, however, if you are still within a negative environment, you will never be able to see this change. If you are struggling or need help in exploring what makes you who you are, I can provide you with a few guidelines that may be helpful in this aspect.
And just remember, there’s an inner child in each and every one of us!
Ghostwriter
That is a tough situation. Dealing with one is difficult two could be more than a handful. I am sorry you have to deal with all this.
Today I am choosing to be blessed that they might forget the dumb things I have done! Thank you so much for your compassion.
My mom wound up with sclerosis on the brain. One of the last Christmases I spent with her in Latvia she asked me Where were you born? SIGH It was Christmas I had another drink
There are certainly times when that is the best choice.
I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s so difficult not to be recognized by the people you love, but you recognize them and that matters.
I guess that is a good point. At least someone knows their heart. Thanks so much for reminding me.
hmm, I’m So sorry..//.
Well, I should be used to this. I guess living with two strangers won’t be much different than living with one. Or perhaps with some rest and a miracle something else will happen. Right now they are both napping.
One step at a time, then a day at a time. Cry all you need to. Message me any time. And know this will get better.
By the way, the poll is perfect. Hugs to you.
The poll worked? How the heck did that happen?
i wish i could bundle hope an send it to you my friend.
i am so sorry.
Well, I had a thought. Perhaps I won’t know them and then my sister will be the one who has to figure it out. — Nope I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. Somehow we will be fine.
you will be – it just takes the passage of time. We are here for you!
Thanks! I need to pick myself and then, humm, not sure what the next step is, but it might come to me!
put one foot in front of the other!
(from the old animated classic Santa Claus is coming to town)!
today is the first day!