The need to abuse is like a drug, and the addicts will never be cured.
If a man abused his girlfriend, he will abuse every woman after who ‘falls in love’ with him.
The word ‘Falls’ is in bold, because to love him is to fall into his trap. He will do anything, be anyone, to get a woman to Fall for him. A woman he can abuse.
This is because he needs to abuse. He needs to hurt the ‘woman he loves’ to show his control and power.
He can not stop himself.
If a Boss abuses one employee, he will abuse the others. He needs to feel powerful and in control at all times.
His employees can quit, he will replace them. He can lose his business because of his behaviour.
That will not change him.
Never think ‘it can’t happen to me’, it can.
The only way to be safe is to avoid the Abuser. To learn about his past, to others, to find the signs and read them, and get away.