The Female Abuser will fill her victim’s life with her people who pretend to be his friends. In this way she knows exactly what and when and where and how of his every movement, thought, plan.
She is alert to any attempt at rapprochement with his family. If he tries, she will make his people as uncomfortable as possible to see if he will ‘take their side’.
If she has done her homework, he will not go against her. Not against her or her people.
In fact, it is standard that if her family visits, they are taken everywhere and treated as royalty. If his family visits they are left like rubbish and know they are unwanted.
Once this has been done, the Female Abuser can proceed to get her name on everything, from the house to the car. She can take everything he has and demand more.
When she divorces him, she leaves with a bundle, and he doesn’t have anyone to even complain to.