What makes the Narcissist so ‘enticing’ is the way they captivate you at that first meeting. There is something almost magnetic about them.
They get inside your head and you think about them. Whether they are that handsome or beautiful, or that amazing, the fact it, somehow the Narcissist gets on your ‘wavelength’.
It is difficult to explain.
Whether it is the ability of the Narcissist to ‘get inside your head’ as many people describe it, or if they have some extra ability to so perfectly read you, can be discussed.
They read you so well they develop that perfect strategy so as to ‘match’ to the point they virtually finish your sentence,
It is that first encounter which is almost magical which gets you under their spell.
The Narcissist knows what to say, what topics to introduce, what expression to wear. It is this portrayal of a ‘soul mate’ which has you drop your guard and plunge in to your detriment.