jaylar
The way to identify a Narcissist is when you are the centre of their universe. The relationship begins with you being on the pedestal. And it ends with you being under their boot.
The elevation is required so that the Narcissist can feel he has taken down a ‘superior’. A person he considers inferior is no victory.
You must be greater than he is, so that when he destroys you he has destroyed someone ‘above’ him.
He must destroy you.
A Narcissist needs for you to lose. No matter the price, you are the target.
If a female Narcissist wants to target a man, she can walk naked into a room full of his friends to humiliate him. The fact she is naked is not measured. That she has done something to hurt that man, is.
This kind of behaviour is standard for the Narcissist.
It is counter intuitive, it makes no sense, it is illogical, so the normal mind would slap it away.
Nah. Can’t be. With a Narcissist,yes, that is what it is. That is why it is done. It is done to hurt the target. No price is to great to hurt the target. Destroying one’s self to hurt another is a small price to pay.
It doesn’t matter what the Narcissist loses, just as long as you are hurt. This illogic is the key feature of a Narcissist.
