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Did you know that January 2nd is World Introvert Day?
By definition, introversion is the state of being predominantly interested in one’s own mental self. Introverts often take pleasure in solitary activities like reading, writing, or meditating, and their energy usually dwindles during interaction, especially in large groups of people.
On the contrary, extraversion is the state of primarily obtaining gratification from outside oneself. Extraverts are energized and thrive off being around other people, and tend to be perceived as enthusiastic, talkative and assertive.
Last, an ambivert is a person who has a mix of these traits. Such people tend to be moderately comfortable with groups and social interaction, but also relish time alone, away from a crowd.
It’s important not to confuse introversion, which is mostly characterized by enjoying alone time, with shyness or social anxiety, although a person could be these things at the same time.
World Introvert Day is about bringing awareness about the inward-focused world of introverts and serves as an opportunity for people around the world to better understand and appreciate introverts. A great way to celebrate this holiday is by spending some alone time doing your favorite hobby, or pick a famous introvert and study their biography.
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Question of
Are you an…
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Introvert
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Extravert
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Ambivert
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Not sure
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Question of
Do you enjoy being in large groups of people?
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Yes
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No
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It depends on the people
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Question of
Do you enjoy solitude?
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Most of the time
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Sometimes
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Rarely
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Never, I prefer being around people
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I find, like the comedian, that I am an extrovert when I am on a stage, talking.
I like the persona that I take on. My Dad used to say, that even my voice changes, into a tenor, so that people will better hear me.
He might have said that again, if he had heard my talk at his funeral, a few years ago.
The rest of the time though, I am an introvert, preferring time on my own, most of the time.
It is wonderful that you feel comfortable both around people and by yourself.
Yes, I can enjoy the best of both worlds, at different times…lol….
I didn’t know that. I’m an introvert who prefers solitude. I will note that date. Some say I am ambivalent but the truth is I tend to be talkative to people I have known for quite some time.
For an introvert, every day is an introvert day, haha. I consider myself an introvert too, but I enjoy talking to one person at a time.
Yes, for an introvert everyday is an introvert day. I dread and don’t like parties or being on a group of strangers.
Same here. I think I am getting a bit more relaxed with the time, because when I was younger even crowds on the street and stores bothered me. Now I am okay as long as I am not supposed to be talking to them.
I think I am an introvert person. The truth is I do not like people
I understand you very well. I like talking to one person at a time, but I don’t like groups.
I am an introvert but I do like to be around people as well. I am a writer so being an introvert only makes sense.
It’s awesome that you feel comfortable both around people or by yourself!
As a teacher, I adapted to being an extrovert on demand. By choice I like quiet. But i have come to realize that the quiet recharge my extrovert battery.
i tend towards being what the people around me are interested in. If it is joke-telling, happy to do so. Storytelling, happy to do so. A quiet reflection of the stars, happy to do that as well!!
It’s great to feel comfortable in any kind of situation!
i really struggled with that fr a long time. I actually was a stand-up comic in college that helped me the most!
That’s so cool! I hate speaking in front of many people and I just can’t challenge myself to change that. I do like telling jokes though.
stand up cured me of that fear. My only fear now in dealing with people is people on the internet who are nasty because no one knows who they are.
The internet dehumanizes people a little bit, that’s why some can get very aggressive and act in a way they wouldn’t do otherwise, so you shouldn’t put much importance on people like that. What they want is attention, so ignoring them is the best you can do.
i agree.
I ignore them until they go after other people, then i no longer ignore them.
I am a n introvert through and through. I cherish every minute I am alone. I hate crowds and I am very quiet and isolated during family reunions. But I am an animal lover and become an extrovert when I am with them…
Same here, although sometimes when I am with someone I like I won’t shut up. But groups of people really drain me.
I do not think introverts will like to have a day for them (lol) I am an extrovert.
Hehe, that’s a good point! The day should be celebrated alone ?
That is me a great big introvert. I can do very well on the Internet but not off of it. Tomorrow I have to go to the store and already I am thinking about how to do it quickly and quietly and get back home.
I often feel the same way. Being able to enjoy time by yourself is actually a great ability.
Thanks for sharing interesting info. I didn’t know that. I occasionally need a little solitude.
Thank you so much for stopping by! 🙂
When I was still active, I was always surrounded by different people, so now it suits me to be alone so I don’t know what category of people I belong to.
I think most people can feel comfortable around people or alone depending on the situation.
I totally agree with you
I like people but sometimes need time alone, I need both but I don’t like crowds in social occasions much.
Same here, I like to be around certain people, but I dislike crowds.
Many would look at me as an introvert. I enjoy being home.
I am mostly an introvert too. I like being around certain people, but I dislike crowds.
I never seem to fit nicely in any one box. I must lack consistancy.
I think that’s true for most people.