Ileana Calotescu
In my life I have met many toxic people. Of these, the most toxic ones seemed to me those who create a panic about everything, even if there is no real reason. If you have the misfortune to meet them at a time when you are unable to analyze the situation yourself, or if the subject is unfamiliar to you, you will be left with a state of panic and anxiety after meeting them. I try to avoid them as much as I can but unfortunately, they still get in my way! I need positive people around me…
Just thoughts on a chilly winter day!
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Have you ever met a toxic person?
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Yes
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No
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Well, I seem to find more toxic people online than in real life. I think that in real life, people who are openly toxic will suffer social isolation as a result; online, people can behave any way they want without any real consequences.
I agree! There are many such people online. Under the protection of a nickname they behave how they want.
Toxic people are horrible, they will not do you any good.
Toxic people generally manipulate, lie repeatedly, and want control over others.
There are such people everywhere. I learned to walk the other path through my life experience.
Avoiding them is the best option.
It’s hard to have only positive people around us.
It’s hard but not impossible!
Positive people are a gift. Thanks for reminding us to be postive!
That is right! The people around us will have an impact on the way we behave. If we spend time with people who think positively, we are more likely to be happy.
that is why i am really enjoying Carol’s new challenge.
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I am a person with nerves that are shot. I can tolerate a lot but not people who panic and drive others into hysteria. I guess in that way I am glad I am on my own now.
I’m just like you. Manipulative people and those who create panic are not my best friends.
While at school the nuns taught us this
“Judge not another but judge within and there you will find enough of sin”
I apply this to my day to day life I first look within if I am the cause and try to work on it.
I’m not sure I understand this comment very well.? Do you think I judge someone’s actions ….. or some people are toxic because of me??
We, including myself have the tendency to think others are always at fault . We must first look within and believe it or not it is not always 100 percent others create toxicity around us.
In your case you are the best judge to know whether others are 100 per cent responsible for that toxic atmosphere around you.
I am the harshest judge of my own actions, believe me. I have never accused anyone before analyzing my own actions. Toxic people will always find a way to slip into each other’s lives, create dramas and turn them against each other, in order to manipulate a social circle.
We need to be strong and yes there are people with ego who cannot face competition and that happens all the time. In a place like this for example I have noticed it but this is a virtual world and therefore it should not be taken seriously. We are not here for a popularity contest after all (lol)
Toxic people are everywhere. Why should I refer to those here? Should I understand that I am toxic because I was talking about toxic people?
It means I didn’t understand your comment very well
I don’t know which post you are referring to, but why do you think it refers to you?
I also need more positive people around me.
I would be glad to meet only positive people. They’re always kind to others.
I have learned over the years to walk way from toxic people.
It is not always easy to do this.
Life is not easy, it took me years to finally make the decision.
I’ve met people like that before. It taught me to try to avoid them. They can be very “harmful”.
Keeping such people at a distance is one of life’s greatest challenges.