Fortune
Finally, in my life, I came to a point where I’m not afraid or ashamed to say that I don’t care about some people. Especially those who left me at the crossroads with a broken heart. I found my way to a safe place. After all, the wounds heal. And I’m not worried about scars.
Sometimes, people after a long time ask me – how are you? Seriously, I don’t even know what to answer to such a question. How should I tell you in a few sentences what has happened in my life over such a long time? Even if I was describing one day, a few words would still not be enough for me.
I probably belong to a group of people who just don’t remember why someone went missing from my life. They are gone, they are not there. So there was some reason. I just don’t remember stories like that. And I try not to analyze them.
I focus on those who reached out to me with a helping hand and gave me their heart and a thousand warm words that were action-based. I don’t care about bad memories. I prefer positive emotions and beautiful thoughts. Yes indeed, we are the feelings we have inside.
And life is changing. It tests people. We are rethinking values. And I don’t want to think anymore what if. Because such thinking leads to nowhere. Such thinking is vegetation, a vicious circle, a dead end. This kind of thinking causes pressure on the nerve cells. I want to live. I want to enjoy the weather, the world. I want to be loved and love. I want to be happy.
© Fortune, 2019
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Do you think about people who once were in your life?
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Yes
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No
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Sometimes
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The only people I still think about or remember are those that have left me with special memories
I have chosen not to muse over those who have left me and the list is endless.
We have to move on from some people in life. It can be very sad but necessary.
It’s hard when old, used to be sweet, friends leave or turn cold on us without explaining why. But it’s encouraging when new friends come along and we cultivate our new friendships afresh. Even better.