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The Coffee Talk… – Judging by the Title and Negativity…

I really don’t like to explain myself to anyone… People who don’t understand will never understand because they see what and how they want to see………..

I will never understand people who have the need to comment or write about other people’s writing in a negative way… 

There is especially one other thing and that is judging by the title… – how can someone who claims they don’t read certain posts claim anything about them if they haven’t actually read them (or they actually read them but only claim they don’t…? :/)…? 

There is also another thing… – there are some who read but don’t understand the article and its intention correctly so they judge by that…

After that, instead of simply skipping such posts and not paying attention to them – because why would someone even pay attention to something they don’t like, they write and comment about those posts and the authors of those posts in a negative way even allowing themselves to tell other people how to act and that they should avoid such posts too…

There are posts which I don’t like, especially when they are about private things and problems and that is something I consider negative so I could also have been writing about such posts they are negative and “advising” other people publicly to avoid them but no… – I NEVER do that… Why………?  – because I don’t care, because that is someone else’s business and not mine…! 

Everyone is entitled to write whatever they want or find interesting so why would anyone have the need or right to comment or write about that in a negative way…?!?

I also think everyone is entitled to comment the way they want and no one can tell other people the way they should think, the way they should comment and express themselves the same way they are allowing themselves to comment, write and express themselves and no one tells them anything about that…!

I especially don’t understand such people writing about users who they blocked and don’t want them on their posts but still allowing themselves to write about them – that is what I call hypocrisy and bullying…..

One can not expect to constantly allow themselves to write negatively about someone and that someone not to react or defend themself…!

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  • Do you think people should judge other people for the things and the way they write and express themselves…?

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  1. I think you hit on several points here that people need to read and understand. I don’t like negativity either. And I usually skip posts that are not interesting to me. I guess this could fall into judging by the title sometimes, but I usually open the post and see what it is all about. Great post!

    • Thank you very much…! This post was certainly not about you but the ones who do that and then judge publicly… Of course, they especially like to do that with the people they blocked and don’t want on their articles but still allowing themselves to freely write negatively about them, but reporting them if they react to such writing…
      I just mind my own business and wish everyone could do the same…!

    • PS I also thank you for your support and understanding since some people obviously don’t agree with this…
      I too tend to read whatever and whenever I can and I guess we all sometimes skip something or (better say) conclude by the title but not all of us judge and write about that publicly, we just continue…

    • Well, there are some who like to criticize users, their writing, and their actions by constantly writing articles about them, their writing and their actions which, btw, doesn’t have anything to do with them, while they are not accepting the reactions from the users they are criticizing and writing about… They block them, they don’t want them on their posts, but allow themselves to do such things… They conclude from their own perspective…
      If I mind something to someone that is only from my personal interaction with them and I’m kind until I notice the other side is not kind…

    • It’s not only writing they judge, it’s actually everything… – writing, comments, the way of commenting, etc., and, of course, there is always something for them to be unsatisfied with and to complain about and criticize even though they are actually accusing and criticizing others for that…!
      The crucial problem is they criticize the way They see things, not the way things Are………
      And therefore, of course, we can’t judge people we don’t know for their writing… It’s not only about the writing, it’s simply not something that should be judged – at least not that way – publicly, at least I don’t almost ever do that even though I don’t like some things… I might mention it sometimes, but certainly not always…

  2. While I think its ideal to not judge but sometimes people just still do …
    it’s hard to avoid …
    I guess we should just take care of ourselves as it’s never easy to try change another, and it’ll be too tiring to do that

    • Sorry, I first must ask why you voted Yes if you think so or you didn’t understand the question properly…? I’m asking this because I’m shocked 10 people voted PRO judging other people’s business – the way of their writing here… What someone’s way of writing has to do with anyone here………?! Do I judge their posts………?!?!!

      Of course, I agree with you in the sense of not liking something, but do you think it’s ok (while it’s actually against the rules) writing about specific people, calling out the same person over and over again, just because of her writing about Virily, for example, like it’s the situation here… Tracking and stalking me (while already blocked me and claiming not reading me) then writing and criticizing me (just without saying the name, of course, while it’s TOO Obvious it’s about me from the writing and the described situations – from their perspective of course…!)…
      I don’t mind anyone’s business, I just skip it or try to be nice if I don’t like something, and I can be bad only to someone who is bad towards me…! But what my writing has to do with someone else who wants me OFF of their posts…!!!?

    • I mean, I understand that someone doesn’t like something and that’s ok, but writing publicly and calling out and bullying that way is certainly something else…! I don’t have anything to do with that person…, she wants me to stay away from her completely, yet writes about me and then reports my EVERY comment if I respond to that writing……..! OF COURSE I will react when I see she is LITERALLY calling me out!…

  3. Current votes:

    Users voted 14 times.
    Q: Do you think people should judge other people for the things and the way they write and express themselves…?

    Yes (9 votes) – 64%
    No (5 votes) – 36%

    I will just repeat what I commented below – shame on the ones who judge and trying to not let others be what they are! I wonder if they would like to be treated that way as their writing can be judged too…! Maybe they should point their fingers to themselves sometimes…!!!

  4. I think people who are full of selfishness and envy do such things. Life is short, we need to learn how to communicate in a civilized way. Let’s take the example of children, they are pure personalities.

    • Yes, that is what I completely agree with…!!! Thank you!!! Unfortunately they think they are doing the right thing by acting that way and that we who react to that are not…! >:|| Exactly, and I don’t have to look at them to be like that, I’m already like that and tend not to ruin it by some vicious people’s acts while I’m really not sure how to deal with such people except to ignore them while due to the things I explained in the text it’s hard… I just can’t stand the injustice that such things are allowed to them while we who are hurt by it, therefore, react to it get criticized… :/|(

  5. I am SHOCKED to learn that 4 anonymous people voted “Yes” and I think they should be ASHAMED for any JUDGING they are supporting………! I hope they will be judged the same way for their “fair” actions…!

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